Bicurious Much?
There is not a woman out there who has not checked out another woman. We do it all the time. We study the clothes she wears, how she styles her hair, the perkiness of her breasts, how great her butt looks or if she is attractive. It is not even something we are aware of most of the time, yet still it is a behavior we seem to exemplify more than men. It is no wonder that after all the scrutiny we put into our assessment of women, that we find ourselves feeling some level of attraction towards women. Women are therefore arguably at the very least bicurious in nature and some are daring enough of actually acting upon the sexual attraction they feel towards other women.
We are not referring to lesbians. Nor are we referring to women who enter relationships with other women (lesbians yes, but some people are in denial and do not like labels). What we are referring to are women who fantasize, dream or think what it would be like to be with another woman. They may want to try (or have) experimenting with a woman and will engage in one on one action with another female or enter a threesome where at least one other person is a woman.
Performing cunnilingus on a woman as a woman and receiving cunnilingus from a woman as a woman, provides an exhilarating sexual experience. It might be due to the fact that as women, we know what we like and turns us on. Of course every individual is different but there is an overall desire in the way females are pleased that seems to be generalized for all women. Or it could be simply that we like to have fun, may wonder what it feels like to be with another woman or want to please our man by making our his fantasies come true.
Usually this girl on girl action happens based on coincidence. Two friends may be comparing breasts and hip sizes and in the midst of it all start to experience feelings of attraction. Another factor that seems contribute to two (or more) females engaging in coitus is alcohol (drunk girls, love to let themselves go). Under the influence, women understandably so, are more easy-going and shed inhibitions regarding what may be considered socially taboo. Alcohol like any other drug, gives the appearance of confidence and often sheds light on deep-rooted truths. Peer pressure i.e. from a male companion, is another reason why women become bicurious. With encouragement and subtle coercion, females start to entertain the idea about a threesome with another women in order to spice up her sex life or fulfill her man’s fantasy.
So ladies, let us engage in a little fun shall we? It can be a liberating experience throwing all caution to the window, dropping to your knees and do what we demand of men to have on their resumes. Maybe you are curious but are apprehensive on how to delve into such an experience. There are some ways you can explore to make your first girl on girl experience happen:
- Ask a friend. Chances are if you are thinking about experimenting with a girl, your friend is thinking the same thing. If you two are friends, there is noting you two cannot share with each other right? Well just ask. It might surprise you that she is willing to be your first and may end up being a lifelong lipstick lover.
- Go to a sex party. In this type of environment it is usually a free for all and because you know that you are with like-minded people who are open (why else would they be at the party) then chances are that you will encounter quite a few women who are looking to get their “cherry” popped for the first time from a woman.
- Have your man pick up a female. If your relationship is secure, than the both of you can go pussy hunting together. The two of you can decide what both of you are looking for in a woman. Women also might be more responsive to a man who approaches them in the open instead of a woman.
- Go online. There are sites like Adult Friend Finder that allows you to have your experience and be up front about it. It is free to register and allows you to be discreet if you do not want anyone to know you are a pussy licker bicurious. There does not have to be any strings attached or a relationship to follow. You can even open up your horizons to hook up as a single woman looking for some female fun or as a couple looking for a third female to join in.
According to Manswers (again, awesome show) the National Health Center reported that at least 14% of women were bisexual – they can have sex and relationships with both men and women. This is different from a woman who is heterosexual and is willing to experiment with another woman. So just because you hook up with a woman, does not mean that you automatically become a lesbian or are even labeled as bisexual. It does not have to result in a mental breakdown because you are confused about your sexuality (unless you really are, if so call up Dr. Drew) nor will you be any less of a woman because of it. It just simply means that like most men, you enjoy some pussy action every so often and you are not afraid of opening up your legs to a few female licks yourself.
From one licker to another: Smooches!
Happy Sexing!
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